Break Free From People Pleasing With Self-Compassion
People pleasing is a trauma response rooted in the need for safety and belonging. Nibodhi shares how this pattern develops in childhood and how it leads to self-abandonment over time. With compassion and a simple breathwork practice, you can begin to sit with discomfort and choose authenticity over approval.
In this episode, you will learn:
- Why people pleasing starts as a survival skill
- How hypervigilance disconnects you from self
- Ways to pause before saying yes under pressure
- How breathwork builds emotional resilience
- What choosing authenticity actually feels like
Timestamps:
- (00:15) People pleasing defined
- (01:04) Trauma roots explained
- (02:29) Hypervigilance and self abandonment
- (03:27) Belonging and attachment fear
- (03:42) Sponsor: Real Mushrooms
- (05:02) Healing with compassion
- (06:03) Pause and feel discomfort
- (06:54) Affirmations and breathwork
- (07:09) Freedom through authenticity
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